From Drift To Drive — Empowering Others To Take Control Of Their Lives

Entrepreneur and “The Apprentice” alum John Gafford’s journey from bartending to boardrooms proves success starts with mindset. His new book, “Escaping the Drift,” reveals how to stop drifting through life and start steering it with purpose.

Albert Chernogorov

John Gafford wears many hats — entrepreneur, real estate mogul, television personality, public speaker, podcaster, and now author of Escaping the Drift: How to Make the World Happen for You, Not to You. A defining moment in his journey came when he competed in The Apprentice, an experience that reshaped his ambitions and outlook on success.

Gafford first gained national attention on season three of NBC’s The Apprentice in 2005, when the show, hosted by Donald Trump, was at its peak. Looking back, he calls it “instant credibility” and a “calling card” that has continued to open doors long after the cameras stopped rolling.

“The biggest takeaway for me was being surrounded by people who were absolutely hustling — operating at full throttle,” Gafford recalls. “It motivated me. What started as one experience turned into something much bigger, delivering far greater benefits than I ever expected.”

He adds, “You don’t need reality TV to be around ambitious people — you just have to change the room you’re in.”

From Television to Real Estate Leadership

Today, Gafford is the founder and owner of Simply Vegas, one of Las Vegas’s leading real estate firms. His media presence spans appearances on NBC’s Today show, HGTV’s My Lottery Dream Home, CNBC’s Power Lunch, Fox & Friends, and Entertainment Tonight.

He also hosts The Escaping the Drift podcast, where accomplished guests from diverse industries share how they broke free from mediocrity to create success on their own terms. As of this writing, the podcast consistently sees more than a million monthly downloads.

His book, Escaping the Drift: How to Make the World Happen for You, Not to You, launching November 11 as a natural extension of his podcast, is driven by Gafford’s personal motivation. It blends personal development strategies with practical business tactics for individuals and entrepreneurs who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or directionless. With specific advice and actionable tools, the book provides a clear template for designing a purposeful life and turning potential into tangible results.

“I wanted something that would be a legacy piece for my kids,” Gafford says. “But I also realized my greatest joy isn’t achieving something for myself — it’s helping others achieve something great. The more people I can put on that path, the happier I’ll be.”

That desire to empower others fuels the book’s message: a call to stop drifting through life and start steering it with intention.

A Nonlinear Path to Success

Gafford’s journey — from his middle-class upbringing in Lake City, Florida — has been anything but conventional. Marked by detours, risks, and reinventions, each turn sharpened the entrepreneurial mindset he lives by today.

“At an early age, I learned that I had two choices: work retail for minimum wage or work in a restaurant where the payoff was better,” he says. “I started bussing tables, then waiting tables, bartending — and by 18, I was managing a bar. My plan was a career in hospitality.”

But fate intervened. “At 20, I lost my fake ID — which, in college-town Tallahassee, was a big deal,” he laughs. “There was only one bar I could still get into — The Equator — and I ended up becoming a partner there.”

After selling the bar, Gafford moved to Orlando, experimenting with ventures from car sales to tech startups. Some succeeded, others didn’t — but each shaped his perspective. Then, a twist of fate: his sister noticed an open casting call for The Apprentice.

“She said, ‘Let’s go try out,’” Gafford remembers. “When I was cast, we even joked that if I won, I’d turn down Trump’s job offer on live TV — just to make a statement.”

He didn’t take home the top prize, but the experience became a launchpad for everything that followed.

The Apprentice: A Wake-Up Call

For Gafford, The Apprentice wasn’t just TV — it was a transformation.

“It made me realize I was limiting my potential by the company I kept and the mindset I had,” he says. “Being in the room with people who were crushing it made me want to level up and surround myself with better, more driven peers.”

Each challenge on the show tested his ability to think fast, lead teams, and make bold decisions — lessons that became the foundation of his business philosophy.

“It was a crash course in what it takes to thrive — not just in business, but in life.”

Inspiring Others to Take the Wheel

Today, Gafford channels that experience into helping others reclaim control of their lives. Through his book, podcast, and speaking engagements, he champions the idea that success is a choice, not a coincidence.

“Life doesn’t just happen to you — you make it happen,” he says. “Stop drifting, take control of your path, and pursue goals that truly matter. That’s how ordinary effort becomes extraordinary success.”

When asked about legacy, Gafford’s answer reflects his trademark drive:

“People ask me about legacy, but I think legacy is kind of nonsense — you won’t be here to see it. Instead, live your legacy every day, and live it bigger than that.”

Final Note

Gafford’s story is less about fame or fortune and more about mindset — about transforming drift into direction, and complacency into courage. His journey reminds us that success isn’t about where you start, but whether you decide to take the wheel. And, if The Apprentice ever does return, it may not be such a bad idea to turn down the job offer if you win the season!